
As a therapist, I would describe myself as psychodynamic, developmental, systems oriented, and eclectic. I believe that if a child's developmental needs are met by appropriate and attentive parenting that the child's resulting curiosity will drive him/her to solve the inevitable puzzles of growth and change. With experimentation, mistakes, and re-experimentation until mastery occurs, the steps to maturity and life purpose emerge. The human being loves puzzles and if one's needs are met, those puzzles are challenges that add value to one's life and the lives of others.
When something interrupts the natural phases of growth in a child's development, like a trauma of some kind or inappropriate behavior of a parent or others toward the child, then curiosity gets diverted into solving the problems associated with that trauma or misguided behavior. The stage of development the child is experiencing when the redirection occurs will determine how he/she will attempt to solve the puzzle. Meanwhile, curiosity about the world unfolding in this emerging person will cease.
Marshall McLuhan, back in the late 60's said: "We look at the present through a rear-view mirror. We march backwards into the future." One of my philosophy professors in graduate school said it this way: "Most of us live life as if driving forward at freeway speeds using the rear-view mirror as our point of reference for steering." When something upsets our developmental direction, we turn around and work on the resultant puzzle at the expense of the present and the future.
My role as a therapist is to create a safe and trustworthy relationship to allow one to solve the puzzles of his/her history. By becoming conscious in the present moment through integrating the historical information and emotions resulting from the developmental interruption, a person can return to being curious about the future.
Services Offered:
- Individual Counseling
- Couple's Counseling
- Family Counseling
- Group Counseling
Specialty Areas:
- Adolescent to Adult Men's Transition Issues
- Life and Career Issues for Middle Aged Men
Educational Background:
- 1967: B.A., Speech, Drama, Rhetoric & Public Address, California State, Hayward
- 1974: M.S., Social Welfare & Correctional Counseling, California State, Chico
- 1984 - 1986: Graduate Studies in Family Psychology, California School of Family Psychology
Work Experience:
- 1974 - 1980: Clinical Director, Horizons Youth and Family Services Project, Livermore
- 1980 - 1999: Private Practice with individuals, couples and families
- 1999 - 2003: Corporate Consulting - Executive Coaching, Team Building and Career Development
- 2004 - Present: Private practice in Petaluma and Santa Rosa, California
Additional Training and Certification:
- 1977: California, Licensed Marriage, Family & Child Counseling License
- 1985: California State Certification to practice hypnotherapy
- 8 years of training at the Family Therapy Center, San Francisco
- Certification in the Birkman Method® for business development, executive coaching and team building
- Advanced Training in the use of Taylor Protocol's, Core Value Index®
About my experience:
Early in my career I was interested in working with adolescents and thought that teaching speech and drama in high school would be a way of making a contribution. While attending California State University in Chico, working on a teaching credential, I discovered the Master of Social Welfare and Correctional Counseling Program. I was drawn to the focus on rehabilitation through early intervention with minor legal offenders using family counseling. My internship was in Contra Costa County's Probation Department in a special unit that worked with the families of young people in trouble with the law. I discovered that the application of family therapy with adolescent youth worked because most often, youth were in trouble for "acting out" feelings that were being generated by serious issues within their families. Effective work resulted in a youth not going deeper into the correctional system.
My first job after my master's degree, was directing a youth diversion clinic in the Livermore Police Department. For the next six years, I continued to be impressed by how effective the diversion via family therapy approach was. The clinic maintained an 85% rate of non-recidivism over five years with first time youthful offenders.
In 1980, I left diversion work to develop a private practice as a therapist and continue my work with families, couples and individuals at various locations throughout the Bay Area.
After 20 years of working as a therapist in private practice, I took my "systems" training in individual and family therapy and developed a business management consulting company with a focus on executive coaching and team building. I enjoyed working with executive leadership and senior managers in a number of large technology corporations, a national law firm and several start-up companies. This work went well until the economy weakened and the consulting business became more difficult.
In 2004, after careful thought, I decided to return to private practice with renewed energy for the work of therapy and solving the puzzles of the past, present and future.
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